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Spend a Weekend
With Lysa


Haven Place | OCT. 19-21 OR OCT. 22-24, 2023 | WAXHAW, NC

Lysa TerKeurst

You’re invited to
Haven Place,

a gathering space just a few short steps from Lysa TerKeurst’s front door. While technology allows us to connect over a video call or exchange prayers over text, there’s something so special about coming together to break bread, dig into the Bible and share our hearts with others who are just as passionate about seeing God’s Word change lives.



1:00-8:30 p.m.


Welcome & Orientation

Main Session One


Small Group Coaching Session One


Small Group Coaching Session Two


Fireside chat with s’mores

FRI: OCT. 20 OR MON: OCT. 23

9:00 a.m.-6:30 p.m.

Coffee & Snacks


Main Session Two


Small Group Coaching Session Three


Main Session Three


Small Group Coaching Session Four


Main Session Four

Dinner On Your Own

SAT: OCT. 21 OR TUE: OCT. 24

8:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m.

Breakfast & Coffee

Q & A with Jim, Leslie, Kobe & Lysa


Small Group Coaching Session Five

Main Session Five & Closing Ceremony

All times EDT. Schedule is subject to change.

Why spend a weekend with Lysa, Leslie, Jim, Kobe and Joel learning about boundaries?

Relationships are wonderful – until they aren’t.

What do you do when:

  • …you’ve reached that place in a relationship where you know something needs to change but the other person isn’t willing to make changes?
  • …you know the relationship isn’t healthy but no option seems like a good option?
  • …you don’t know how to identify the dysfunctions in some important relationships so you’re not even sure what to work on for things to get better?
  • …you’ve experienced the ending of a significant relationship and you’re not sure how to move on in healthy ways?

If you’ve been asking any of these questions, The Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Retreat is just for you. You’ll gain biblical confidence that boundaries aren’t just a good idea, they are God’s idea. And you’ll be empowered to know how boundaries will help you fight for relationships and how to implement them in ways that work.

You’ll learn how to recognize when a relationship has shifted from having typical difficulties into destructive patterns that must be addressed.

This isn’t about leaving people – boundaries help us love people without losing the best of who we are.

In-person Registration


$2250 per person

 Registration Includes:

Small gatherings hosted in private settings where Lysa’s family gathers often

ONE Breakfast, One Lunch AND ONE DINNER PLUS Snacks and Coffee

5 COACHING sessions and 5 break out sessions taught by:

* Lysa TerKeurst- Author of “Good Boundaries and Goodbyes”

* Jim Cress- Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT, CMAT

* Kobe Campbell- Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor

* Dr. Joel Muddamalle- Director of Theology at Proverbs 31 Ministries

* Leslie Vernick- Best selling author of “Emotionally Destructive Relationships”

Reflective Worship Experiences

Q&A Breakout Session

Registration is limited to only 58 women so this can be a truly unique and special environment to learn, process, and connect with other attendees.

Hotel recommendations, along with other details will be provided to those who register to attend in person.


Lysa TerKeurst

Lysa TerKeurst is a mother of five and the president of Proverbs 31 Ministries. She is the New York Times bestselling author of Forgiving What You Can’t Forget, It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way and Uninvited. Lysa was recently awarded the Champions of Faith Author Award and has been published in multiple publications such as Focus on the Family, and CNN online. Additionally, she has appeared on the Today Show as one of the leading voices in the Christian community.

Each year, Lysa is a featured keynote presenter at more than 40 events across North America, including the Women of Joy Conferences and the Catalyst Leadership Conference. In addition, she hosts the annual She Speaks Conference, which has helped thousands of women gain the tools to pursue a calling in speaking and writing.


Dr. Joel Muddamalle

Joel serves as the Director of Theology and Research for Proverbs 31 Ministries and Lysa TerKeurst, and is a part of the preaching team at Transformation Church with Pastor Derwin Gray. Joel earned a PhD in Theology. He loves studying and teaching the brilliant truths found in Scripture and unpacking how they relate to our everyday lives.

Leslie Vernick

Leslie Vernick is a popular speaker, an author, a licensed clinical social worker, and a relationship coach. She has more than three decades of experience helping individuals, couples and families with her expertise on a variety of issues including personal and spiritual growth, marriage improvement, conflict resolution, depression, domestic violence, and child abuse. Leslie is the author of seven books, including her best-seller, The Emotionally Destructive Relationship, which is now in its ninth printing. She and her husband, Howard, have two grown children and three grandchildren. Learn more about Leslie by visiting her website.

Jim Cress

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT, CMAT

Jim is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Multiple Addictions Therapist, and a Certified Daring Way Facilitator with Dr. Brene’ Brown’s The Daring Way Organization. For three years, he studied with and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes, the founder of the sex addiction field. Jim specializes in counseling those struggling with sex addiction, partners of sex addicts, marital counseling, trauma, abuse, and experiential group therapy.


Kobe Campbell

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC)

Kobe Campbell is a Charlotte-based, Ghanaian-American Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC), trauma specialist, writer and speaker. Kobe holds a Masters of Art in Christian Counseling from Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary. Kobe is the founder of The Healing Circle Therapy & Wellness Center in Charlotte North Carolina and hosts The Healing Circle Podcast. Named one of Charlotte’s Most Influential Women by Charlotte Lately Magazine and awarded Rising Star Under 30 by WILMA magazine, Kobe is a decorated and highly sought speaker, facilitator, and educator. She looks forward to sharing her expertise with anyone willing to learn and grow.